Oh i found it, thank goodness. I really am dense. Thank you.

thank you for the quick response, I still cant find where that is.
i tried posting an image of what my mediamonkey looks like so you could maybe point it out to me but it won't let me...

I'm sure there have been plenty of posts of "how to scan for duplicates", but nearly all of them i come across seem to be for outdated version of mediamonkey since they keep referring to things that i don't see in my version. For example: MediaMonkey can help find and eliminate duplicates ...